LET US MAKE LUST

By K’amimo Emox

As much as I believe in human freedom and defend this basic right to the grave, Am also a staunch believer in the truth that the ultimate test of freedom is responsibility. The ultimate beauty of sex is commitment. The sweetness of this gift lies in responsibility; that is its compulsory accessory.”

It is spoken in low tones, for some it’s a taboo to speak about, yet they are its active practitioners. The question is whether it is making love, making lust or sex. Making love is more than just having sex. Many have however lustfully misused sex claiming they make love, while in essence, they are making lust. Sex without responsibility is a shame to human dignity. Disagree with me but even birds and animals have sex selectively. Some species even set conditions before they go bingo. Sex therefore raises a question of what morality is. Morality is simply what you feel good after, what is immoral is what you feel bad after.

It is a fact I must admit, a condom does prevent one from pregnancy and maybe from HIV. However, dose it protect you from emotional torture? Does it protect you from guilt and feelings of worthlessness? Most importantly, does it protect you from feeling cheap? The answer is big NO.

American poet, Ralph Waldo Emerson says it clearly that, “Nothing can bring you peace but yourself, nothing but the triumph of principles.” We have seen many who used themselves only to claim later that they were misused and dumped. Sex will never exist without strings attached, even twilight girls will tell you so. The emotional scars of the act are worse than any lethal disease. The worst part of the fiasco, however is that they never completely heal. They have the most delicate of triggers. Sleeping around therefore does not make you a hero or a heroine. As much as I believe in human freedom and defend this basic right to the grave, Am also a staunch believer in the truth that the ultimate test of freedom is responsibility. The ultimate beauty of sex is commitment. The sweetness of this gift lies in responsibility; that is its compulsory accessory.

Sex has for long been lauded as one of the best way to exercise. In fact some peers in our circles term it ‘sexercise.’ What they never tell you is that it is also the shortest cut to unhappiness and sadly also the fastest route to a quick demise.

People engage in sex for very flimsy of reasons. Some do it to prove a point. They try to prove either their manhood or womanhood. I would call this dumb and silly. I mean you only need to stand before a mirror in your nature suit or take a good look at yourself in the bathroom. Others claim to use sex to prove that they love one another only to become bitter enemies. In the bible Amon hated her sister, Tamar more than he had ever loved her immediately he slept with her.

The most stupid of all reasons for playing sex is to gain experience. I spent most of my childhood in our farms. While there I had a chance to see animals give birth, after a few days, the young animals would, mount one another, and no one taught them. This therefore shows that the act is so natural that you need no school to teach you. Provided emotion and passion reigns supreme, it’s an inborn basic animal instinct.

To sum this, just remember that you may become a false hero through your sex escapades but that is just a fallacy. A time comes when the sins of the past come knocking at your present. They knock loud at your door and refuse to go. This is the time you’ll remember that you perfectly made lust