Unknown to many, the average university girl no longer has time to date the young guy in her IRD class. Many wish to hook up with top CEOs, politicians, business men and anyone else in the public eye willing to bankroll their lives and make their lofty dreams cross from fantasy into reality. Men on the other hand have their fat wallets out for a little passionate presence. Campus guys on the other hand prefer sugar mummies.
The major reason behind all this is the dating games in campus. Most students are usually advised by their parents and friends not to associate with campus men and women because they are heart-breakers. This advice is normally broken the first two weeks of stay in campus.
The campus experience is just as much about experiences outside of the
classroom as it is inside. The innocent age is mostly in the first year
of campus. The girls are at their most naïve stage, of course, in spite
of themselves thinking otherwise. They have all kinds of set values and
high standards. He must be smart, well dressed, kind, polite, a Muslim
or Christian preferably of the same denomination. Guys in campus
understand this well so they act as expected.
The first day she meets ‘Mr. Right’, she is invited for coffee. The girl gets excited after seeing a carpeted room with a music system and TV, which she does not have. She becomes a frequent visitor and slowly but sure, she is entrapped. She gets used to being taken out for supper and dinner and so she cannot cook any more. She is introduced to drinking and sex (the man assuming that the pot-belly doesn’t get in the way). When she is in her second year, all she thinks about is going out to have fun.
The guy plans to dump her because of her behaviour. She is now described as a drunkard who does not know how to cook, unworthy to be introduced to ones’ parents because of her indecency and now a gold digger who is after men’s money. The spare key to the guy’s room is taken back and the guy becomes busy with assignments which never existed when they met.
The cycle repeats as he waits for the next group of freshers with his headphones stuck in place as head bops to the music. Since she’s used to the life of plenty, when the guy’s pockets ‘narrow’, she clings to an old man without giving a hoot that the man is married, and has no remorse for the poor woman who’s old enough to be her mother with whom she is brazenly competing for ‘love’.
In his fourth year, the guy realizes that he is late and desperately starts chasing after older ladies.
At your tender age, you end up contracting AIDS and other STDs. Remember that being single is not a death sentence hence it is important to be patient and wait for the right person. You might destroy your body when you think you are satisfying it.
The first day she meets ‘Mr. Right’, she is invited for coffee. The girl gets excited after seeing a carpeted room with a music system and TV, which she does not have. She becomes a frequent visitor and slowly but sure, she is entrapped. She gets used to being taken out for supper and dinner and so she cannot cook any more. She is introduced to drinking and sex (the man assuming that the pot-belly doesn’t get in the way). When she is in her second year, all she thinks about is going out to have fun.
The guy plans to dump her because of her behaviour. She is now described as a drunkard who does not know how to cook, unworthy to be introduced to ones’ parents because of her indecency and now a gold digger who is after men’s money. The spare key to the guy’s room is taken back and the guy becomes busy with assignments which never existed when they met.
The cycle repeats as he waits for the next group of freshers with his headphones stuck in place as head bops to the music. Since she’s used to the life of plenty, when the guy’s pockets ‘narrow’, she clings to an old man without giving a hoot that the man is married, and has no remorse for the poor woman who’s old enough to be her mother with whom she is brazenly competing for ‘love’.
In his fourth year, the guy realizes that he is late and desperately starts chasing after older ladies.
At your tender age, you end up contracting AIDS and other STDs. Remember that being single is not a death sentence hence it is important to be patient and wait for the right person. You might destroy your body when you think you are satisfying it.