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By Supertall Nyathiwa
WHEN LADIES COMPLAINED ABOUT MENS’ USUAL PIC-UP LINE YA "U look familiar," we changed to others... Why can’t you also find what to say when told you are wonderful? TUMECHOKA NA "THANX FOR THE COMPLIMENT" …and guys also never want to get the following from you FEMALES!!!
1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN?
You’ll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he’ll call.
If not, he will text you. You don’t have time for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.
2. WHY DIDN’T YOU CALL?
There’s only one answer to this question: Because he didn’t want to! What
you’re really asking is, “Why didn’t you want to call me?” Who knows! There
could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering
why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about
ONE guy. Don’t be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if
they break, it’s a big mess!
3. WHERE WERE YOU?
If he wanted you to know where he was, he’d tell you. What you’re really
asking is, “Where are you with another female that you like better than me?”
Your insecurity is showing, my dear. If anything, he should be wondering
where you were.
4. I LOVE YOU (FIRST)
You’re saying it in the hopes that he’ll say it back, but what if he
doesn’t? You’ll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying “I love you”
is not going to speed things up if he’s not ready to say it back. So just
cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he’s ready.
5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER?
As long as he’s not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone.
Don’t torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case,
ignorance really is bliss.
6. I’M PREGNANT!
In 2010, with all the birth control choices available, there is no excuse
for becoming pregnant, unless you want to be. You should be using something
and he should use a condom, every time.
7. WHERE IS THIS GOING?
Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be
with, not someone that’s constantly worrying about the future. His actions
or non-actions will tell you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere,
you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.
8. WE NEED TO TALK!
This is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s office”. Guys know it’s
not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re already on the defense. If
you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of
you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed or
trying to watch TV!
9. I HATE YOU!
Even if you do, it’s totally uncalled for and un-lady like. If there’s an
issue, be mature enough to discuss it when you’re calm. If he’s breaking up
with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily, but it’s
best to remain calm and act unfazed. He’ll wonder why you’re so cool about
it and that may make him re-think his decision. Always be pleasant during a
break up. Do you want to be known as the girl that goes psycho if someone
breaks up with her? I didn’t think so.
10. I DON’T TRUST YOU!
What you’re actually saying is, “You need to step up your game, because I
can see you’re up to something.” If he is up to something, he’ll just become
even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-it’ll be easier to get the
evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.
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